SuperMindset : Managing Failure

For some people, failure is a disaster, a condition which merely like the end of the world, when the sky is getting darker, and apocalypse just like a dawn appear on the horizon of the view. Most of us is treat the failure as the "must-avoid" thing, a spot on our bright light, a dot on our white shirt. Failure is placed as a symbol of our disability, our imperfect action, carelessness, and other negative thing which presuming, before, during, and after the incident happen on our timeline of life.

For many years, people is so afraid about failure, even if the failure is just appear as a prediction, but guess what, the negative perspective to failure is near to its end, because many succes people has proven if failure is a mother of every achievement. Somehow, a lot of people believe if The electric lamp inventor, Thomas Alfa Edison, is never think if He fail on his hundreds experiment to create the very first electric lamp. when major of the people ask "Mr. Edison, how can you resist to continue your experiment after thousand of failure with no result?", then Edison just give a simple answer : "failure ? we are not talking about failure here, for hundreds of my experiment, I believe that I am succeed, sure I am succed to find the wrong way to manufacturing the electric lamp."

Another point of view about failure is come from my Mentor, a highly qualified trainer named Ridwan Abadi. He has an interesting perspective, which We should be happy if we are fail. Yes, happy, really-really happy when we are fail. Of course I cant just accept this statement when I hear it for the first time, but lately, I can easily understand the concept when He share His opinion. It start with a statement that nobody in this world, is never get a failure, then it means, everybody in this world is always get a failure, no matter who he/she is, then we can just simply put in our mind, if the failure is an exact something, it is a 50 : 50 opportunity next to the success, so we can afford the failure with a more realistic mind. Furthermore, related to the fact that everybody in this world is always get a failure, my Mentor Ridwan Abadi is persuading His own mind, if everyone is destined with a condition called "The Stock-of-Failure", it can be easily described when we get a failure, it means we reduce our stock of failure, so positively, we are getting closer with our success, and the main fact, the most success people in the world, is clinically examined, do the most trial, get the most failure, then they are get the prize, a success with the highest achievement.

So, be dared with your failure, be attaracted to it, enjoy the wave, and success is one step closer to Us.

That is today Inspiration, hopes you enjoy, feel free to share with me another interesting topic to be discussed together here.














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