SuperMindset : When something goes wrong, we used to do "The B-E-J" - Syndrome (Part 1)

Consiusly, we are all agreed if this life is full of challenge, this life is full of mistery, then we are realise if thet point made this life is much more interesting. there are smile, there are cry, happiness and sadness just pass on our life just like a round of the wheel. We are take every situation as a cycle, a normal situation of this life, but in fact, there are two different perspective on how to managing our mind facing the reality of life, especially the negative one. We need to put our attention on the negative situation, because the positive is more easy to be handled, but when we get the negative, it seems like we need an extra energy to manage it on the right way. By my simple observation on people around my daily activity, there are a habit that usually appear when someone on a negative situation, on my very own point of view, this habit is not only improductive, but also making everyone else feel uncomfortable.
Imagine if you are on a bad situation, or uneasy condition, where you think if that is the worst of everything, Bingo, on thet very situation, usually the BEJ Syndrome appear. Purposively I called it BEJ Syndrome because of that action is representing the three major action usually taken when we are stuck in a bad situation such as : late, angry, lazy, unable to do something, guilty, etc. The BEJ Syndrome is build from the three capital words B E J which stand for : Blame, Excuse, Justify.
I guess we are getting closer for what I am trying to share here. Blame, appear when we are unable to make a confession if we are wrong. when we are late, we are always blame the traffic jam, the unrang alarm, the missed schedule, or maybe anything we can say just to avoid the fact if we are wrong, because prepare everything improperly, resulting we are late on attending a schedule.
The second is Excuse, so interesting to examine this second chapter of the syndrome, but be patience to read it on a full share on my next posting, surely, I am also wondering how surprising it will be.













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