SuperMindset : When something goes wrong, we used to do "The B-E-J" - Syndrome (Part 2)

Recently, the first part of this topic was published few days ago, if you are interested on how this story is started from, dont worry, you can just check it here. At this time, we are discussing about the B-E-J Syndrome, just like what I expose on my welcome post, I always try to discuss a specific nice topic, and hopefully you can enjoy it too. When something goes wrong, i noticed that most of us is appearing the BEJ Syndrome, the blame, excuse, and justify. after understanding the blame syndrom in the first part, now it is so interesting to undersatnding the excuse part.
Lets take a simple example, when we are placed in a uneasy condition, a hard time, or when we are failed to completing a task, normally we will use the excuse runaway gate, so directly a statement like "no problem, we can do it another time" or "no problem, we can still alive without completing that task" is easily released from our official tongue. Do this really happened on Us ? of course you are the most responsible person to answer it, but when you are the more productive person, the excuse method is no longer acceptable, because on my own opinion, ideally, to get more result, we must do more effort, no pain no gain, and of course, to get the broader knowledge, of course we must broaden our comfort zone.
I guess it is a simple concept of understanding, but dont worry, we will get deeper on the third part of this topic.
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SuperMindset : When something goes wrong, we used to do "The B-E-J" - Syndrome (Part 1)

Consiusly, we are all agreed if this life is full of challenge, this life is full of mistery, then we are realise if thet point made this life is much more interesting. there are smile, there are cry, happiness and sadness just pass on our life just like a round of the wheel. We are take every situation as a cycle, a normal situation of this life, but in fact, there are two different perspective on how to managing our mind facing the reality of life, especially the negative one. We need to put our attention on the negative situation, because the positive is more easy to be handled, but when we get the negative, it seems like we need an extra energy to manage it on the right way. By my simple observation on people around my daily activity, there are a habit that usually appear when someone on a negative situation, on my very own point of view, this habit is not only improductive, but also making everyone else feel uncomfortable.
Imagine if you are on a bad situation, or uneasy condition, where you think if that is the worst of everything, Bingo, on thet very situation, usually the BEJ Syndrome appear. Purposively I called it BEJ Syndrome because of that action is representing the three major action usually taken when we are stuck in a bad situation such as : late, angry, lazy, unable to do something, guilty, etc. The BEJ Syndrome is build from the three capital words B E J which stand for : Blame, Excuse, Justify.
I guess we are getting closer for what I am trying to share here. Blame, appear when we are unable to make a confession if we are wrong. when we are late, we are always blame the traffic jam, the unrang alarm, the missed schedule, or maybe anything we can say just to avoid the fact if we are wrong, because prepare everything improperly, resulting we are late on attending a schedule.
The second is Excuse, so interesting to examine this second chapter of the syndrome, but be patience to read it on a full share on my next posting, surely, I am also wondering how surprising it will be.













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SuperMindset : Dream it Big, Dream it High

Some people doubt about their dream, usually, we are asking a common question : "Can I make it ?" , "Is it possible?", "I must be kidding", or other statement, reflecting how doubt something will happen in our own life. In the other side, wise man is always say : "dare yourself to get your dream", "dream is major point of success", and "no achievement without a dream". It is debatable, but on my very own perpective, i just love the second side, lets make it logic, great achievement always start from a great dream, great vision, so, we can build simple conclusion, that there will be no achievement without a dream. the airplane, the cell-phone, the internet, the computer, even our pen, is created from a dream, from a something unthinkable before. when we are afraid to dream, then we are not ready to achieve something, get it after you are dreaming about it.

One particular thing about a dream is its universal law. no matter if you are American, Indonesian, Frenchman, Italian, or other nationality in this very world, the law of dream is always the same, dream is own by everyone, dream is free, so no matter how small or how big is your dream, how regular or how high is your dream, it is always the same, it is free, no cost charged for it. So, why put your position in a superthinker mode ? the economic law is also appear here, with the minimum tribute, get the maximum profit, oh yeah baby, its the best part of the dream. if you dream it small, it will be possible, it will be easy to achieve, it will be proven in a very short time, but noted it, we will achieve only a small dream. Vice versa, what if we are dreaming big ? a lot of risk, big challenge, bunch of failure, but, you will get the best from the rest.

be remarkable, be energized, succes is our right, and we will happily walk on it.....

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SuperMindset : Managing Failure

For some people, failure is a disaster, a condition which merely like the end of the world, when the sky is getting darker, and apocalypse just like a dawn appear on the horizon of the view. Most of us is treat the failure as the "must-avoid" thing, a spot on our bright light, a dot on our white shirt. Failure is placed as a symbol of our disability, our imperfect action, carelessness, and other negative thing which presuming, before, during, and after the incident happen on our timeline of life.

For many years, people is so afraid about failure, even if the failure is just appear as a prediction, but guess what, the negative perspective to failure is near to its end, because many succes people has proven if failure is a mother of every achievement. Somehow, a lot of people believe if The electric lamp inventor, Thomas Alfa Edison, is never think if He fail on his hundreds experiment to create the very first electric lamp. when major of the people ask "Mr. Edison, how can you resist to continue your experiment after thousand of failure with no result?", then Edison just give a simple answer : "failure ? we are not talking about failure here, for hundreds of my experiment, I believe that I am succeed, sure I am succed to find the wrong way to manufacturing the electric lamp."

Another point of view about failure is come from my Mentor, a highly qualified trainer named Ridwan Abadi. He has an interesting perspective, which We should be happy if we are fail. Yes, happy, really-really happy when we are fail. Of course I cant just accept this statement when I hear it for the first time, but lately, I can easily understand the concept when He share His opinion. It start with a statement that nobody in this world, is never get a failure, then it means, everybody in this world is always get a failure, no matter who he/she is, then we can just simply put in our mind, if the failure is an exact something, it is a 50 : 50 opportunity next to the success, so we can afford the failure with a more realistic mind. Furthermore, related to the fact that everybody in this world is always get a failure, my Mentor Ridwan Abadi is persuading His own mind, if everyone is destined with a condition called "The Stock-of-Failure", it can be easily described when we get a failure, it means we reduce our stock of failure, so positively, we are getting closer with our success, and the main fact, the most success people in the world, is clinically examined, do the most trial, get the most failure, then they are get the prize, a success with the highest achievement.

So, be dared with your failure, be attaracted to it, enjoy the wave, and success is one step closer to Us.

That is today Inspiration, hopes you enjoy, feel free to share with me another interesting topic to be discussed together here.














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Inspiring People : Zainal Abidin - Jay The Terrorist

Meet Jay, an incredible person from Indonesia. He is one of my favourite motivator. If you get a chence to meet him, yo will find a simple, motivating and energizing person. His full name is Zainal Abidin, a common name in Indonesia, maybe you will find hundreds of other Zainal Abidin in this archipelago country, but just like what I have said before, this person is especially made to different. You can say on the image above, there boldly typed : "Prov. Zainal Abidin PHD" , an eye-catching headline which contain an ambiguity, because the phrase "Prov" is not stand for the word "Professor" but it stand for "Provocator", and the PHD title at the back of his name is not a title for post-graduated program, but merely defined as "Permanent Head Damage", a sarkactic symbol, reflecting the unstoppable spirit to spread the entrepreneurship mindset.

Zainal Abidin or Jay The Terrorist is an outstanding entrepreneur. At his age, a bunch of achievement was made. Until now, Jay is officially crafted as the highest authority of "Institut Kemandirian", a non-profit organization which put its concern to reduce the unemployment in Indonesia. As we know, the unemployment is one of the major problem for the developing countries, so a solutive action is needed, because unemployment is often appear because our school is shaped its student become an employer who taking and searching for regular jobs, not the entrepreneur, which be able to taking the risk, providing job for himself, and career for his employer. Jay is also involved to manage one of the social organization in Indonesia called "Dompet Dhuafa". this organization s managed to help the need for better education, health, and other social aspect. Jay just love to provocating, He always persuading people to be independent, not to give up, and pushing the motivation to its limit, just like one of His provocation when he launch a "School for Monkey", yes, a real monkey, just to proven His challenge, that if we teach the monkey, just in less than three month, we can guarantee thet the monkey can making money for itself (for being an entertainer), furthermore, the monkey is also be able to producing money for the monkey owner !!! So what a shame, if we are human, who perfectly made by God, are unable to be productive.

Jay is also a book writer, He write almost hundred book title, some of it was translated to foreign language. He is also noted as a senior mentor of the Indonesian Entrepreneur Community named "Tangan Di Atas", and the official share holder of some outstanding company in Indonesia such as : PT. Unilever and Aneka Tambang (AnTam). some of story about Jay is also available here, or you can visit Jay official site.

That is a story about Jay. Please feel free to suggest me other awesome people to be reviewed on my blog. Enjoy.













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